To me this is important!
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A: To me this is important!
OTHERS: Oh yeah, that's important to you.
Even if you claim that it is important in your values, it is an act of ignoring the way others feel in their values, so it will be ignored by others as well. Mr. A is unaware that other people have things that are equally important to them, and he thinks that other people should respect X that he considers important.
By that very same logic, others do not respect Mr. A's emphasis on X
Rare is the person who is open-minded enough to focus on what the person who ignores what you focus on focuses on.
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